Book of Memories for Ralph John Houghton

Thinking of You From Janice (Larsen) Sershen - Tremper Class of '68

Sat, 22 Aug 2009 13:49:12 EDT

Dear Mrs. Houghton, I just learned of your husband's passing; I'm so sorry; I did not know Mr. Houghton from school or band but my parents and I attended many of your ice cream socials at your lovely 7th Ave. home along with your neighbors, Joe and Lida Hindley; this has brought back many special memories as I have recently lost both my parents, Arnold and Lois Larsen, who spent their entire life in Kenosha. I was also in your shorthand class. I am now married and living in Bend, Oregon. My sympathies to you and your family.

Condolence From Melanie Hansen Champion

Sat, 06 Jun 2009 02:07:14 EDT

Dear Houghtons, I was saddened by the news of Mr. Houghton's passing. It has been many years since seeing your family but the number of ways that Ralph had touched my life are great. Currently, I am still teaching music outside of Evansville, Indiana (Newburgh)and the learning experience of growing up in the Kenosha music scene will always be with me. From a beginner in Band-O-Rama, to Choir festivals, to student teaching while Ralph was Director of Music in Kenosha, to helping choreograph "Shows-a-poppin" at St. Marks, it was great working with him. Mr. Houghton was an awesome force for music education in Wisconsin and I am glad and proud to have known him. I am thankful that he helped to foster the great passion for music in my life. My sympathy and prayers are with your entire family. Sincerely, Melanie Hansen Champion

Condolence From Phyllis Metallo

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:07:06 EDT

Mary and family, We are so sorry to hear about the recent passing of your father. If there is anything we can do, please feel free to ask. Phyllis Metalo Julie Pelkowski

Condolence From Vera Woltersdorf

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 12:00:01 EDT

My deepest wishes for peace in your loss.

Condolence From Old Bradford H.S. Alumni choir, band and orchestra students

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 11:31:53 EDT

In the movie, "Mr. Holland's Opus", a student who squeeked and squawked her way through trying to play her instrument, got through it with Mr. Holland's persistance,guidance, patience, love and teaching. He let her know that she could succeed. She later became Governor and at Mr. Holland's retirement said,"Look around you. There is not a life in this room that you have not touched, and each one of us is a better person because of you. We are your symphony, Mr. Holland. We are the melodies and the notes of your opus. And we are the music of your life." Mr. Houghton, the Kenosha music students of the past, present and future, are Your Symphony, we are Your Opus and we love you for all you have done for music in Kenosha and in our hearts.

Condolence From Steve & Joanne Relich

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 09:25:38 EDT

To Jane and the beautiful Houghton family: We drove back from Hurley, WI and will be at the mass today. Our love and sympathy to you all. We remain forever inspired by Ralph and Jane Houghton.

Condolence From Carol Wood, Tremper Class of 1970

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 08:27:50 EDT

My deepest condolences to you. Mr Houghton (yes, that is how so many of us know him) affected more lives than you will ever know. Music is important to so many people who were students in Kenosha only because of the effort, commitment, and passion for music that Mr Houghton so enthusiastically and tirelessly shared with Kenosha. We were so fortunate to have him as a part of our community. I remember the Ice Cream Socials on your lawn, the piccolos standing during the Stars and Stripes Forever at Band-o-rama (what a great name, by the way!), the bandmembers standing so still during inspection at Round-Up, and all the summer bands that would march in the parades. This exposure to music at an early age was invaluable and got me going on a lifetime of music appreciation. What a tremendous legacy this man has left to generations of Kenoshans. He will be missed.

Condolence From Annie Heller Wetherbee

Thu, 04 Jun 2009 13:17:51 EDT

With deepest sympathies to the Houghton Family, The most vivid memories I have of my childhood are waking up on a summers morning to the distant sound of the Bradford drum line coming down 65th and turning on to 3 Ave. I would throw my clothes on quickly and race out to meet them as they got to Eichelman park. I would follow the band as far as my parents would allow, which was usually right about your house. I could still tell you what were my favorite pieces the band played, Latina was it? And could probably reenact most of the field drill Bradford performed at Round up. To this day I still love marching bands and I didn't even go to Bradford, I was at St. Joe's with the weakest band in history. I wasn't even in Mr Houghton's school district and yet he affected my life profoundly. We waited excitedly every summer for the ice cream social, what a wonderful way to bring the community together. Mr Houghton was an invaluable asset to Kenosha and an inspiration to all. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Sincerely, Annie Heller Wetherbee

Condolence From Bob Trapp

Thu, 04 Jun 2009 12:47:58 EDT

I was very surprised to hear of Ralph's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Houghton Family. I will never forget Ralph's zest for life, and I will never forget what my dad said about him. "He was the kind of boss who would not just give orders from the sidelines and watch everyone else work. He would take down the chairs after Band O Rama right next to the band directors." Kenosha and the world of music education just lost an icon. We are all better off having known Ralph Houghton and his wonderful family.

Condolence From Linda (Bashinsky) Ziesemer

Thu, 04 Jun 2009 10:03:38 EDT

Dear Houghton Family, Please accept my deepest sympathy over the loss of your beloved Ralph. He touched my life through the orchestra program at K U S D. I will forever be grateful to Ralph for giving me the opportunity to receive violin lessons at school. I have enjoyed playing my violin for over 40 years and hope to continue for a long time to come! Because of Ralph, I was able to give my love of music to my own children; two play the violin, and the third was in choir. Because of Ralph, I was able to be a part of the Kenosha Orchestra Boosters Organization for 10 years, holding the positions of vice-president and president. Because of Ralph, my life has been blessed. Thank you, Ralph! Your work will not be forgotten! May God bless and comfort you, Linda (Bashinsky) Ziesemer Bradford Class of '76 (I have a feeling that somewhere in Heaven can be heard..."Hey, lets have a music festival...")

Condolence From venkata k.sharma

Thu, 04 Jun 2009 08:46:46 EDT

I got to know Ralph 6 or 7 years ago.I saw him and his wife Jane on a regular basis.At no time did he tell me that he was a veteran or a POW.At no time did he tell me that he is an icon.I cannot believe that a human being can be so humble and unassuming.As the saying goes"it is nice to be important but more important to be nice".Ralph's focus was centered around the health and welfare of his wife.What a remarkable human being.I will miss him

Condolence From Rick Sadlon

Thu, 04 Jun 2009 07:42:48 EDT

I would like to offer my deepest condolences to the entire Houghton Family. The opportunities provided as the result Ralph's work in the Kenosha schools during my time at Bradford HS profoundly changed the course of my life and the lives of many generations of many people. As the Director of Music in a school district in Connecticut, I often tell people from Kenosha that I am the "Ralph Houghton" of the school district that I am working in. I didn't know it at the time, but he was a role model and mentor to me in where my life's path has eventually lead me. If I can only make a fraction of the positive difference that Ralph made in the lives of people, I will consider myself successful. I am forever grateful for the quality education that I received under his leadership. His work and legacy will live on.

Condolence From Steve and Kris Olsen Thrailkill and family

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 13:45:19 EDT

Mary and the entire Houghton Family, Please accept our deepest condolences on the death of your father. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. As your dad helps orchestrate Heavenly music, we thank you for sharing your dad with so many in Kenosha and all over the world for so many years! May God hold you all close at this time.

Condolence From Cris Guenther

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 12:28:03 EDT

You will be missed by more people than you could ever realize. You will be remembered and honored for many years to come.

Condolence From Nan Pollard

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:59:45 EDT

Ralph and George were great friends for many years and shared lots of good times together, especially on the tennis courts. He and Jane always hosted special Christmas gatherings at heir home and we always looked forward to seeing the new additions to the miniature holiday village which Ralph set up each year. He was one of a kind and will always be missed. My sympathy to you, Jane, and your wonderful family. Nan Pollard

Condolence From Lana \"Stine\" Frank-Krause Class of \

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:54:00 EDT

Mr Houghton was a man of many talents, he got into the hearts and souls of all the children that had the honor to know him... No words can really comfort the Houhgton Family right now. But please know my deepest prayers and wishes are always with you. May God give you the strength to overcome this pain.

Condolence From Donald W. Smitley

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:41:40 EDT

During the three short years I served as Superintendent of Schools in the Kenosha School District, I was constantly amazed by the tenacity with which Ralph pursued improving the already superior music programs which he directed. He was truly an inspiration to me of a truly dedicated administrator. I am certain that his leadership inspired thousands of music students that he served. You, the members of his family, should be especially proud of the example he provided for his fellow educators. Please accept my condolences for your loss.

Condolence From Diego Centeno

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 08:50:17 EDT

Ralph what can you say about him? He's one of few People in my life that made a difference! It was him that provided the outlet in my life that later gave me the skills to procede into the Music World! I can remember meeting him for the first time and shaking in my shoes! He demanded the Best and would not settle for 2nd Best! That's way the Music Program in Kenosha was the envy Nationwide! That's why many will come and go but there will never be another "Ralph Houghton" God Bless!

Condolence From Rick Ritacca

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 08:38:04 EDT

Words can't even begin to describe the number of people that Ralph touched in his days on this Earth. I know that deep in my heart that I'm a better person for knowing Ralph, and all of you family members. I knew both Mary and Steve from high school. Participating in the Kenosha band programs from Beginner through Bradford Bands taught me so much about life, and how precious it is....and to live and to love each day to the fullest. I remember all of those ice cream socials there at your home; also, the parades, and even Great Lakes Band Championships (a.k.a Round-Up). They were all so special to me. All because of Ralph. Also, all of the set-ups and tear-downs at Band-O-Rama at Carthage. Mr. Houghton could get volunteers with just a smile. It was infectious. It was a privilege to help out, and to participate in these wonderful events. Even after Ralph retired, my two children were a part of the wonderful music programs in Kenosha, in band, choir, and orchestra, for Ralph had his hand in all three programs! Kenosha, WI was put on the map because of tireless efforts of Ralph Houghton. I am proud to have known such a wonderful person, and am very sorry for your loss. May God comfort all of you, because Ralph will be missed. Sincerely, Rick Ritacca New Berlin, WI

Condolence From Jim Hendrickson ( Bradford class of 1960 )

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 07:00:00 EDT

My sincere condolences to Jane and the entire family. Ralph certainly was a great man, band director, husband, father and mentor. When I think of the original Ice Cream Socials on the Houghton front lawn, original Band-O-Ramas, and all the fun and get togethers of the first Band Boosters.... it just brings tears to my eyes. I am privileged to have known Ralph, Jane and all of their kids. I called Ralph and Jane about 8 or 9 years ago after having picked my trumpet back up after a 35 year lay-off and told them I'm having the time of my life playing again. I'm glad we had that conversation.. they both sounded wonderful... I miss Ralph already... All my best to the Houghton family..

Condolence From Al and Diane Schumacher

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 06:13:10 EDT

Through the goodness of Bob Loss, we learned last night of Ralph Houghton's death. Our prayers and sympathy are extended to Jane and her family.Interesting enough, we think, Diane and I had just talked about Ralph the evening before we learned of his death. We attended a high school band concert where we live in San Antonio. We'd bet Ralph would have enjoyed the school concerts we've attended here. Excellent music programs here reminded us of Ralph and Kenosha music programs. God bless and keep you in His love, Jane, in this difficult time. Diane & Al Schumacher

Condolence From Peter Gaarder and Family

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 05:18:34 EDT

Ralph was a great man. He and my father Richard Gaarder worked tirelessly to push music education in our schools forward to be a state that is admired for it dedicated music teachers and students throughout the country. He was quick with a joke and had a hearty laugh that was infectious to all around him. Ralph you will be missed. Peter(DINK)

Condolence From Larry and Kris (Winzer) Miller

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 03:52:56 EDT

As former Supt. of KUSD, Dr. John Hosmanek so wonderfully said, "Ralph was a one man Irishfest." The joy, music and happiness Ralph Houghton brought to everyone will be missed by our entire community. What he did for Kenosha, as well as for our music program and education of our children will forever be a part of Kenosha's history. Thanks to the entire Houghton family for sharing him with us for so many years. All the music greats that have passed before him finally have their "Music Man" to direct them in the grande finale. Our "Music Man" will now be leading a lot more than "76 Trombones in the Big Parade......." We love you Ralph !

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Condolence From Jeff Douglass (Bradford Class of '71)

Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 EST

Dearest Family Members of Ralph Houghton: Please accept my heartfelt sentiments of sadness upon hearing of Ralph's passing. Many have said it already: he was one of the most remarkable people to have given so much to countless numbers of "K Town" young people who lived and breathed the music program that he directed. From Band-O-Rama to his Ice Cream Socials to his support for the All-State Band and Jazz Ensemble competitions, Ralph was always there to urge us to attain the best possible results....and to love the music we played. No matter where I have been in life since 1971, I will always remember the music of the Kenosha Public School system, and the talented leaders that Ralph brought forth to teach us. My humble thanks to Ralph, and my promise to never forget him. Jeff Douglass - Bradford '71

Condolence From Stan DeRusha

Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 EST

Ralph Houghton was one of the most important people in my life. He hired me to direct the Lincoln Junior High School Band and then put me at Bradford High School where I began to mature under his watchful eye.Ralph got me involved in the State Music Educators group and encourage me to be the best I could be. However, more than anything else, he was always a pillar of integrity and warmth for me even in my darkest hours. Ralph will always remain the strength of my life. May God bless Jane and family. My love and condolences for the loss of such a wonderful and giving man. Ralph, you will always be in my heart.